2 Samuel 12:10
ESV
Now therefore the sword shall never depart from your house, because you have despised me and have taken the wife of Uriah the Hittite to be your wife.’
NIV
Now, therefore, the sword will never depart from your house, because you despised me and took the wife of Uriah the Hittite to be your own.’
NASB
Now then, the sword shall never leave your house, because you have despised Me and have taken the wife of Uriah the Hittite to be your wife.’
CSB
Now therefore, the sword will never leave your house because you despised me and took the wife of Uriah the Hethite to be your own wife.’
NLT
From this time on, your family will live by the sword because you have despised me by taking Uriah’s wife to be your own.
KJV
Now therefore the sword shall never depart from thine house; because thou hast despised me, and hast taken the wife of Uriah the Hittite to be thy wife.
NKJV
Now therefore, the sword shall never depart from your house, because you have despised Me, and have taken the wife of Uriah the Hittite to be your wife.’
What does 2 Samuel 12:10 mean?
David's life has already been filled with violence. When he was a boy, he defended his sheep against bears and lions. He defended Israel by slaying a giant Philistine (1 Samuel 17). He quickly became one of King Saul's most successful military commanders, killing "ten thousands" in war and two hundred just to win the hand of a princess (1 Samuel 18:7, 27). He frequently escaped Saul's attempts at assassination (1 Samuel 18:10–11; 19:1, 9). He fought Israel's enemies both as Saul's general and as an independent contractor (1 Samuel 19:8; 23:5; 30:17). As king, he sent his army to battle the Ammonites who dishonored him (2 Samuel 10:12–17), the Philistines, again (2 Samuel 5:17–25), and many others (2 Samuel 8:1–14; 10).Until now, he had never used violence against his own men. Not until he slept with Uriah's wife, got her pregnant, and had Uriah killed (2 Samuel 11).
David thought he'd gotten away with his sin, but God sees all. God sends Nathan the prophet to confront David. Thanks to a clever parable, David begins to understand the extent of the evil he has done. His first sin, the origin of all the others, is that he "despised" God's Law. He set it aside for something else, preferring his own choices to God's will.
God announces that David will experience what Uriah did. David, Uriah's trusted king, killed him; David's household will be known for violence and treachery. David took Uriah's wife in secret; someone close to David will take his wives publicly (2 Samuel 12:11).
Both punishments are primarily within David's own family. David's son Amnon rapes his own half-sister Tamar (2 Samuel 13:11–14). Tamar's brother Absalom waits for David to act. When David doesn't, Absalom kills Amnon (2 Samuel 13:20–29). David refuses to fully reconcile with Absalom, so Absalom wins the hearts of the people and deposes David. David and his household flee for their lives, leaving ten concubines behind to care for the house. To flaunt his authority, Absalom has sex with them on David's roof. Absalom's and Joab's forces battle, and Joab kills Absalom, against David's command (2 Samuel 15—18).
There is another consequence. David took away Uriah and Bathsheba's chance to have a child. So, God will take the life of Bathsheba's baby with David (2 Samuel 12:14–23). The baby isn't a sin offering or a blood sacrifice. He's the son of the king, conceived in adultery. He is David's third innocent victim.
