Proverbs 19:20
ESV
Listen to advice and accept instruction, that you may gain wisdom in the future.
NIV
Listen to advice and accept discipline, and at the end you will be counted among the wise.
NASB
Listen to advice and accept discipline, So that you may be wise the rest of your days.
CSB
Listen to counsel and receive instruction so that you may be wise later in life.
NLT
Get all the advice and instruction you can, so you will be wise the rest of your life.
KJV
Hear counsel, and receive instruction, that thou mayest be wise in thy latter end.
NKJV
Listen to counsel and receive instruction, That you may be wise in your latter days.
What does Proverbs 19:20 mean?
By divine design, the natural human body has one mouth but two ears. That correlates to practical, physical needs as part of biology. Yet it also provides a living parable: poetically suggesting that listening is twice as important as speaking. Solomon notes how paying attention to good advice (Proverbs 1:7–8; 8:32–36) leads to a wiser future. The allusion here is to moral correction and discipline (Proverbs 19:18–19).This proverb also notes that it's important to "accept" learning from others. Simply hearing advice without acting on it is as useless as buying medicine and letting it sit unopened. Carefully considering correction and discipline and following through with actions prepares a person for the future. How one responds to adverse circumstances in later years of life shows whether they acquired wisdom during younger years. In his younger days, the apostle John leaned on Jesus' chest. He was a member of Jesus' inner circle of disciples (John 13:23; Luke 8:51; Mark 9:2). In John's old age, God used him to write five New Testament books: the gospel of John, First, Second, and Third John, and Revelation, in which his wisdom shines. He met persecution wisely when he was an old man, showing he had carefully listened to and heeded Jesus' teachings.
Proverbs 19:8–21 continues Solomon's observations about wisdom and foolishness, a king's wrath, household turmoil, and human plans as compared to divine sovereignty. A theme of these proverbs is the danger of ignoring godly wisdom, while placing too much reliance on one's own ability. A wise person is prudent, diligent, and honest. At the same time, wisdom means realizing that not all plans work out.
Several themes are associated with these statements. Among them are the idea that personal integrity is worth much more than earthly wealth or success. Solomon discusses the unfortunate habit of favoring the rich and dismissing the poor, while commending those who care for the unfortunate. Many references are made to the consequences of foolish behavior, including the shame and punishment such things can bring.