Proverbs 21:9

ESV It is better to live in a corner of the housetop than in a house shared with a quarrelsome wife.
NIV Better to live on a corner of the roof than share a house with a quarrelsome wife.
NASB It is better to live on a corner of a roof Than in a house shared with a contentious woman.
CSB Better to live on the corner of a roof than to share a house with a nagging wife.
NLT It’s better to live alone in the corner of an attic than with a quarrelsome wife in a lovely home.
KJV It is better to dwell in a corner of the housetop, than with a brawling woman in a wide house.
NKJV Better to dwell in a corner of a housetop, Than in a house shared with a contentious woman.

What does Proverbs 21:9 mean?

Once again, Solomon notes the stress and misery caused by an argumentative, negative wife (Proverbs 19:13). Ancient homes, in Solomon's era, often had flat roofs accessible by stairs. In both a literal and figurative sense, Solomon is referencing the stereotypical image of a man who would rather be cold, alone, and uncomfortable than inside with a wife who "nags" and finds fault.

The phrasing here is literally about a woman bringing grief to a man, but the principle applies to either spouse. Harmony and helpfulness are the ideal for any marriage, but tempers and personality conflicts can disrupt that partnership. When one's spouse is constantly complaining, arguing, or bringing insults, the other spouse suffers a great deal of stress and anxiety.

God created the first woman, Eve, to live in harmony with her husband Adam. He created her to be a helper and treasured partner (Genesis 2:18). The apostle Peter exhorts wives to adorn their hearts "with the imperishable beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which in God's sight is very precious" (1 Peter 3:4). With equal importance, God called on husbands to love and sacrifice for their wives by following the example of Jesus Christ (Ephesians 5:28).

The exact same statement is repeated in Proverbs 25:24.
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